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Your Digital Afterlife: What Happens to Your Photos, Passwords and Accounts If Something Happens to You?

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Most people have a Will for their house and savings. Almost nobody has a plan for their digital life. We rely on photos, passwords, notes, documents and subscriptions that quietly sit underneath our everyday routines.

When something unexpected happens, families are often left locked out of phones, email accounts and cloud storage. They often cannot access vital information or even treasured memories. This guide explains, in plain English, what actually happens to your digital accounts and the simple steps you can take now to make things easier for the people you love.

The Essentials: The Three Things That Matter Most

If you do nothing else, do these three things:

  • Make sure a trusted person knows your Phone PIN.
    Without it, they cannot see security codes and cannot use your passwords.
  • Set up Apple or Google Legacy Contacts.
    This protects your photos, documents and key data.
  • Create a simple “Digital Information Sheet.”
    Keep it with your Will (but not inside it).

These three steps prevent most of the stress families face.

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In real cases, families often discover:

  • Locked Devices: They cannot unlock the person’s phone.
  • Inaccessible Memories: Photos in iCloud or Google Photos are unreachable.
  • Hidden Admin: Email, banking and documents are sealed behind logins.
  • Ongoing Costs: Subscriptions continue charging the bank account.
  • Lost Details: Insurance, bills and ID details cannot be recovered.

It does not need to be complicated. A few preparations now prevent months of distress later.

1. What happens to your accounts when you die?

Different companies handle digital access in different ways.

Apple (iPhone, iCloud)

If you have not set a Legacy Contact:

  • Family cannot access your photos, notes or iCloud backups.
  • Apple will not unlock a device without a court order.

If you have set a Legacy Contact:

  • Your trusted contact can access your photos and key data using an access key and a death certificate.

Important: They cannot access your messages, iCloud Keychain (passwords) or paid purchases. These areas remain protected even after death to maintain your privacy and security.

Google (Gmail, Photos, Drive)

Google may delete inactive accounts after 2 years unless you configure the Inactive Account Manager. This is part of their global safety policy, but it can catch families out.

If you set it up:

  • You decide who is notified.
  • You choose what data they can download.
  • Your photos and emails are protected from automatic deletion.

Without it, families typically cannot retrieve data.

Facebook

You can nominate a Legacy Contact to manage a memorialised profile. They can:

  • Write a pinned post
  • Update the profile photo
  • Respond to friend requests

They cannot read your messages or access private content. Alternatively, you can choose for your account to be permanently deleted.

2. The real modern problem: Two-Factor Authentication (2FA)

Most people assume that leaving a list of passwords is enough. Today, that is no longer the case.

Most secure services (Gmail, banking, Amazon, HMRC, Gov.uk) use Two-Factor Authentication. When someone tries to log in from a new device, a 6-digit security code is sent to your phone.

If your family cannot unlock your phone to see that code, the password is useless.

The Fix: Ensuring a trusted person knows your Phone PIN is the most important step in digital planning.

3. Your photos: where they actually live

For most families, photos are the most precious digital asset. Cloud storage complicates access.

  • If you use iCloud Photos: Your photos usually live in the cloud, not on the device. Without access to iCloud, they cannot be retrieved.
  • If you use Google Photos: Photos are often only stored online. Without account access, they are effectively gone.

Solution: Set up a Legacy Contact and note where your main photo library is stored.

4. Digital subscriptions and ongoing bills

Without access, subscriptions can continue for months or even years. Common examples include:

  • Amazon Prime
  • Apple iCloud, TV, apps
  • Google storage
  • Netflix, Disney+, Spotify
  • Broadband and mobile contracts
  • Microsoft 365, Adobe

A simple list of recurring bills – or giving your executor access to your email – stops this drain.

5. Exactly what to set up today

Here is your step-by-step checklist.

A. Set up Apple Legacy Contacts (iPhone)

Go to Settings > [Your Name] > Sign-In & Security > Legacy Contact.
Choose one or two trusted people. They receive an access key. With that key and a death certificate, Apple can unlock your account data.

B. Set up Google Inactive Account Manager

Visit myaccount.google.com/inactive.
Choose how long your account waits before becoming “inactive”. Decide who gets notified and what they can download. This prevents accidental deletion of your photos and emails.

C. Nominate a Facebook Legacy Contact

Go to Settings & Privacy > Settings > Personal Details > Account Ownership and Control > Memorialisation.
This ensures your profile is handled the way you want.

D. Enable “Emergency Access” in your password manager

If you use Bitwarden, 1Password or similar, nominate a trusted contact.
They can request access in an emergency. If you do not deny the request within a set waiting period (e.g. seven days), they are granted access.
You do not need to hand over your master password now.

E. Create a “Digital Information Sheet” (Crucial)

A single sheet of paper stored with your Will (but not inside it).

Include:

  • Phone PIN
  • Computer login password
  • Email password
  • Password manager master key (if applicable)
  • Where your main photo library is stored
  • List of recurring subscriptions

Important: Do not put passwords in your actual Will. Once it is in probate, it becomes a public document.

F. Back up your photos independently

Create a physical backup using an external hard drive or USB stick.
This gives your family immediate access without needing Apple or Google at all.

6. What families can do if nothing was set up

Access may still be possible, but expect delays.

  • Apple: Usually requires a court order.
  • Google: Often allows account closure, not full access.
  • Banks: Freeze accounts immediately upon receiving the death certificate.
  • Subscription services: Close accounts when notified.

Without preparations, this process often takes weeks or months.

A gentle conclusion

This is not about fear. It is about kindness.

Planning your digital afterlife is an act of care for your family. A small amount of preparation now prevents confusion, financial loss and unnecessary stress at an already difficult time.

If you would like help setting any of this up, Marple Tech Help offers Tech Legacy — a calm, confidential in-person session to get everything organised properly for peace of mind.